TRUE LOVE FOUND ON BUSY STREETS

HAPPY RAM NAVAMI TO ALL MY FRIENDS.. Wonder two people from different families ,different backgrounds,different thoughts, can come closer only from a single day event that is MARRIAGE. Ya of course Im talking of arrange marriages which has prevailed & been practised since many years. But the pattern has changed today. No more Casual meetings, No following of traditions, funda is "LADKI LAO VARNA BHAGAO". But has anyone ever thought why such traditions,ceremonies existed,the real thought behind can be anything, but truly speaking it was welcoming two new souls with all pomp and joy into a newly abboded heaven. Thoughts have changed,styles being reformed ,feelings are very artificial,still in this dirty world I am truly blessed to have a glimpse of two beautiful couple that i saw yesterday. I was very upset that i couldnot store them in my camera,but still they are fresh in my mind and have ruled my heart. If anyone has forgotten what we couples are meant for,kindly think once again,,, It was Ramnavami yesterday, auspicious day, roads in Bhubaneswar were jamed like mumbai locals, but was happy to find people take out time for the divine,whom they remember at their bad times. I was on my to office,a hot sunny day,scorching heat at its best,I was really irritated by the heat,when i saw something and completely forgot what i was heading towards. The most beautiful couple, "A BLIND MAN WITH HIS SWEET WIFE WHO WAS A DWARF". They were asking the way to Ram Mandir.The man was silent and his wife held his hand with the confidence that she can face the world with all courage and strength. It reflected from their faces how deeply they supported and loved each other. Committment was something they exemplified.They looked like RAM AND SITA, serene, beautiful and pure. I was just mesmorised to see such people who can fight against all odds if they have their love by their side. They are examples for every married,diviorced,unmarried couples. They dont have any luxury to save and enjoy and they didnot need them as well, since they both were the treasure and luxury for each other for a lifetime. Even an example for my parents. The dwarf wife stood tall to hold his husband and travel miles with no complains andhelp.They looked like the divine, pure and completely involved in thier love,no cares for the brutal society. Every able man wants a beautiful, matured ,rich wife & viuce versa. But what if one of them is blind,deaf.or you can say is differently abled. Will your love be shattered, will your world get narrowed. In serach of true partner we fix all crietrias that our narrow vision canm provide but we forget to expand our horizon ,our hijacked thoughts. What if religions are different,what if looks are contrastthe one important that needs to exist between couple is true unconditional love,that is not slave to any worldy materialistic things & this applies to everyone residing in all nook and corner of this world. Its really true that you get learning experience from your daily mundane work. Yesterday by looking at those two people i have started believing that true love can make wonders,it can make a blind person see this world with love and hope, a deaf hear the music of love, a dumb speak his heart. So dont we try to carve our lives with unconditioanl love and faith, inspite miseries,fear,selfish thoughts,business,burden etc,,which can make oour life miserable not worth living.

I have learned to live but..have along way to go ahead

Ya its true that I have found myself transformed from a girl to a lady. I started my career as an MBA & that was where my journey began. I made many friends , learned many things, understood the ups & downs of life but still that was not complete,, or I cud say I was not complete. When I use to see successful people ,I use to ponder what if I’m in their place,what if I carry the same wealth,fame ,name,,n etc etc.. But I was unable to visualize the process that took these people to reach such heights as I was taken aback by their experience ,verses, personality etc etc..
But now I’m no more a student, I have already begun my professional experience as an HR Consultant. And let me share something with everyone that being an HR is really tough..rarely awesome. No matter it’s a consultancy or organization..HR role is the same everywhere. The pressure cooker whistles the same everywhere & I’m feeling the same heat today, of course everyday.
However I feel proud to be a part of such crowd & the every day experience is worth sharing.
The girl who never tolerated pains, heat, sweat, burden, bashing, rudeness..Is proud to share that The World can try me now at any moment of time. Here stands a lady who has learned to stand alone, tolerate , listen patiently, bear every hardship. The reason is not that I’m working now or I’m employed but I have accepted the truth that Life is not the same everyday, infact it changes every moment. Everyday I get to learn new things , experience new faces, new personalities , new voices, new dreams & yes they are great . ITS TRUE THAT MAN GETS KNOWLEGDE FROM LEARNING MANY THINGS BUT WISDOM COMES FROM ONCE EXPERIENCES ONLY.
Now I’m no more engulfed in the glories of famous people , as I have understood that Life was no beautiful for them when they were at my age. They had experienced the same or even more bitter hardships then me. I have the faith that not all of the rich men were born with a silver spoon in their mouth & even I’m not. But if they had the courage to fight against all odds & achieve their dreams , even I can . JUST REQUIRES THE RIGHT VISION, RIGHT PATH, RIGHT DETERMINATION & RIGHT GUIDANCE, GODS GRACE, AND IM ALL SET FOR THIS…
STILL I FIND MYSELF INCOMPLETE AS I‘M ONLY A BEGINNER & HAVE A LONG WAY TO GO AHEAD…AND WILL NEVER STOP DREAMING …
EVEN ALL OF MY FELLOW BEINGS I REQUEST YOU NOT TO STOP DREAMING,,,DREAMS WILL COME TRUE IF YOU WILL BE SET FOR THE ABOVE THINGS…

NJOY N GOD BLESS
RAHMI

SELF SATISFACTION....

Many a times people misconstrue self satisfaction wid selfishness, but frnz they are not the same. Self satisfaction is all about feeling gud for oneself by doing gud to others. Its not created but experienced ,after realizing that your life is not meant for you only but others as well. Its not about feeling for human society only but for other living & non living beings on earth as well. for e.g. a starving animal, a weak plant, a broken cycle, a split up relationship, a paralysed road, plastic cup & wrappers beside the dustbin, flowing tap, roaring chimney, sum1's puntured tyre, repairing the broken toy of a small kid, a broken heart, a confused mind, an ached body......n many things surroound you. you neednt wait for a bright sunny day to help others but you can do it now n then, everyday , provided you have that enthusiasm to.
You neendt serve others for increasing your assets of gud deeds in life's balance sheet to impress god, but do it so that 20 yrs down the lane when you look back at your past you are not ashmaed of your deeds. You can proudly face your family, tell artifacts of gud works to your grand children ,look into your own eyes & feel free like a bird to fly towards the heavenly abode.
Recently on republic day, i asked one of my frnd to do sumthing worthy tday by helping a needy, the best way to spend this auspicious day. Later when i asked him if he did anything gud..he replied that he had spent the entire day sleeping in his room. When i told him everything about self satisafctio,he argued that by sleeping he has satisfied himself{self satisfied}..i laughed but didnt say anything, but hope so when he reads this extract of mine he will realize what i meant.
Serving oneslf satisfies your short term desires but will sleeping the entire life will get you out frm any distress at evry point of life. Certainly not, serving the needy who deserves your care & concern is what self satisfaction is all about. you will feel gud today , will smile tomorrow, n narrate these things proudly later & will be blessed for yuor entire life.
I feel proud to say one of my frnd "chims" helped out an old lady in the train by compromising his comfort n giving his seat to her, though he was tired due to his exams few days back & the long journey. He did it not to show his greatness but becoz he felt for her, saw his own grandmom in her.
Once you start realizing you wil find things change around you,& the moment you institutionalize & implement the change you can feel what wonders SELF SATISFACTION{ACTUALIZATION} CAN DO..
SO WAKE UP SID,,,N CATCH HOLD OF TIME BEFORE IT SLIPS AWAY...