Many a times people misconstrue self satisfaction wid selfishness, but frnz they are not the same. Self satisfaction is all about feeling gud for oneself by doing gud to others. Its not created but experienced ,after realizing that your life is not meant for you only but others as well. Its not about feeling for human society only but for other living & non living beings on earth as well. for e.g. a starving animal, a weak plant, a broken cycle, a split up relationship, a paralysed road, plastic cup & wrappers beside the dustbin, flowing tap, roaring chimney, sum1's puntured tyre, repairing the broken toy of a small kid, a broken heart, a confused mind, an ached body......n many things surroound you. you neednt wait for a bright sunny day to help others but you can do it now n then, everyday , provided you have that enthusiasm to.
You neendt serve others for increasing your assets of gud deeds in life's balance sheet to impress god, but do it so that 20 yrs down the lane when you look back at your past you are not ashmaed of your deeds. You can proudly face your family, tell artifacts of gud works to your grand children ,look into your own eyes & feel free like a bird to fly towards the heavenly abode.
Recently on republic day, i asked one of my frnd to do sumthing worthy tday by helping a needy, the best way to spend this auspicious day. Later when i asked him if he did anything gud..he replied that he had spent the entire day sleeping in his room. When i told him everything about self satisafctio,he argued that by sleeping he has satisfied himself{self satisfied}..i laughed but didnt say anything, but hope so when he reads this extract of mine he will realize what i meant.
Serving oneslf satisfies your short term desires but will sleeping the entire life will get you out frm any distress at evry point of life. Certainly not, serving the needy who deserves your care & concern is what self satisfaction is all about. you will feel gud today , will smile tomorrow, n narrate these things proudly later & will be blessed for yuor entire life.
I feel proud to say one of my frnd "chims" helped out an old lady in the train by compromising his comfort n giving his seat to her, though he was tired due to his exams few days back & the long journey. He did it not to show his greatness but becoz he felt for her, saw his own grandmom in her.
Once you start realizing you wil find things change around you,& the moment you institutionalize & implement the change you can feel what wonders SELF SATISFACTION{ACTUALIZATION} CAN DO..
SO WAKE UP SID,,,N CATCH HOLD OF TIME BEFORE IT SLIPS AWAY...
You neendt serve others for increasing your assets of gud deeds in life's balance sheet to impress god, but do it so that 20 yrs down the lane when you look back at your past you are not ashmaed of your deeds. You can proudly face your family, tell artifacts of gud works to your grand children ,look into your own eyes & feel free like a bird to fly towards the heavenly abode.
Recently on republic day, i asked one of my frnd to do sumthing worthy tday by helping a needy, the best way to spend this auspicious day. Later when i asked him if he did anything gud..he replied that he had spent the entire day sleeping in his room. When i told him everything about self satisafctio,he argued that by sleeping he has satisfied himself{self satisfied}..i laughed but didnt say anything, but hope so when he reads this extract of mine he will realize what i meant.
Serving oneslf satisfies your short term desires but will sleeping the entire life will get you out frm any distress at evry point of life. Certainly not, serving the needy who deserves your care & concern is what self satisfaction is all about. you will feel gud today , will smile tomorrow, n narrate these things proudly later & will be blessed for yuor entire life.
I feel proud to say one of my frnd "chims" helped out an old lady in the train by compromising his comfort n giving his seat to her, though he was tired due to his exams few days back & the long journey. He did it not to show his greatness but becoz he felt for her, saw his own grandmom in her.
Once you start realizing you wil find things change around you,& the moment you institutionalize & implement the change you can feel what wonders SELF SATISFACTION{ACTUALIZATION} CAN DO..
SO WAKE UP SID,,,N CATCH HOLD OF TIME BEFORE IT SLIPS AWAY...
