HAPPY RAM NAVAMI TO ALL MY FRIENDS.. Wonder two people from different families ,different backgrounds,different thoughts, can come closer only from a single day event that is MARRIAGE. Ya of course Im talking of arrange marriages which has prevailed & been practised since many years. But the pattern has changed today. No more Casual meetings, No following of traditions, funda is "LADKI LAO VARNA BHAGAO". But has anyone ever thought why such traditions,ceremonies existed,the real thought behind can be anything, but truly speaking it was welcoming two new souls with all pomp and joy into a newly abboded heaven. Thoughts have changed,styles being reformed ,feelings are very artificial,still in this dirty world I am truly blessed to have a glimpse of two beautiful couple that i saw yesterday. I was very upset that i couldnot store them in my camera,but still they are fresh in my mind and have ruled my heart. If anyone has forgotten what we couples are meant for,kindly think once again,,, It was Ramnavami yesterday, auspicious day, roads in Bhubaneswar were jamed like mumbai locals, but was happy to find people take out time for the divine,whom they remember at their bad times. I was on my to office,a hot sunny day,scorching heat at its best,I was really irritated by the heat,when i saw something and completely forgot what i was heading towards. The most beautiful couple, "A BLIND MAN WITH HIS SWEET WIFE WHO WAS A DWARF". They were asking the way to Ram Mandir.The man was silent and his wife held his hand with the confidence that she can face the world with all courage and strength. It reflected from their faces how deeply they supported and loved each other. Committment was something they exemplified.They looked like RAM AND SITA, serene, beautiful and pure. I was just mesmorised to see such people who can fight against all odds if they have their love by their side. They are examples for every married,diviorced,unmarried couples. They dont have any luxury to save and enjoy and they didnot need them as well, since they both were the treasure and luxury for each other for a lifetime. Even an example for my parents. The dwarf wife stood tall to hold his husband and travel miles with no complains andhelp.They looked like the divine, pure and completely involved in thier love,no cares for the brutal society. Every able man wants a beautiful, matured ,rich wife & viuce versa. But what if one of them is blind,deaf.or you can say is differently abled. Will your love be shattered, will your world get narrowed. In serach of true partner we fix all crietrias that our narrow vision canm provide but we forget to expand our horizon ,our hijacked thoughts. What if religions are different,what if looks are contrastthe one important that needs to exist between couple is true unconditional love,that is not slave to any worldy materialistic things & this applies to everyone residing in all nook and corner of this world. Its really true that you get learning experience from your daily mundane work. Yesterday by looking at those two people i have started believing that true love can make wonders,it can make a blind person see this world with love and hope, a deaf hear the music of love, a dumb speak his heart. So dont we try to carve our lives with unconditioanl love and faith, inspite miseries,fear,selfish thoughts,business,burden etc,,which can make oour life miserable not worth living.
